Combatting impostor syndrome

QUESTION:

Dear Whitty Women,

What are some tips for combatting imposter syndrome in the workplace? 


ANSWER:

Dear Reader,

Impostor syndrome is common among successful women, especially in male-dominated fields or leadership roles. According to a survey, half of executive women experience self-doubt because they never expected to achieve their level of success. To combat impostor syndrome, here are some tips: 

  • Acknowledge your feelings and know that you're not alone. Imposter syndrome affects many high achievers, and it doesn't define your abilities. 

  • Challenge negative thoughts by seeking evidence and reminding yourself of past successes. 

  • Focus on your accomplishments, big and small, to boost your belief in your abilities. 

  • Set realistic goals that are achievable and avoid setting yourself up for failure. 

  • Seek feedback from trusted colleagues, mentors, or friends to gain valuable perspectives and validation. 

  • Practice self-compassion and forgive yourself for mistakes. Treat yourself kindly as you grow. 

  • Talk to someone you trust, like a coach, or a friend, to share your feelings and develop coping strategies. 

  • Embrace the learning process and prioritize personal growth over perfectionism. 

  • Celebrate small victories to build confidence and motivation. 

  • Surround yourself with supportive individuals who believe in your abilities. 

  • Emphasize the effort and dedication you've put into your accomplishments. 

  • Keep a record of positive feedback and compliments to remind yourself of your impact. 

  • Step out of your comfort zone, take risks, and embrace opportunities for growth. 

Here are some additional articles that provide further insights and advice on how to combat impostor syndrome: 

  1. Why imposter syndrome hits women and women of color harder?” by BBC Equality Matters 

  2. Why do women in tech feel like they’re faking it?” by Women Tech Network